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DANGERKITTY
Received November 20, 2003
I met a guy on a dating site for sexually oriented people.
He was looking for a dominate. Well, that's me. He listed among his interests forced feminization and crossdressing. At the time, I didn't really understand what that was all about. I have lots of gay friends and many that dress in drag. So, it didn't turn me off, just found it a curiosity.
We began emailing back in forth.
We had much in common. He wanted to talk about the crossdressing thing but I told him lets just see if we get along and if there's chemistry first. We began talking on the phone. He felt a great need to discuss it so I gave in. He began sending me pictures so I could see him as his other self. Immediately, I started thinking of ways to make him prettier! I guess I wasn't so shocked after all. We began dating and that's when I discovered that he didn't own men's underwear. After a time, I would tell him which pair to wear that day. It became a fun part of our relationship. I also loved the fact that I had him as a man, him as a woman and both the dominate and submissive of each personality. Although it didn't work out with him, we were together for 3 months.
I met a woman at one of the tranny nite events at the local bar and we became friends. She has been educating me on the differences between all the groups categorized as
transgender-- crossdressers, transvestites and transsexuals. She set me up with a friend of hers, who I would now categorize as a transvestite, but we had different relationship goals.
We dated for 2 months and remain good friends to this day. For now, I will continue dating crossdressers and hope to find one to have a long term relationship with.
So my advice to other women is to go with the flow, be tolerant, try something different and don't be afraid of what you don't understand. Ask your man about the first dressed
and how he felt when he did. Ask him how he feels dressed in men's versus women's clothing. Try to understand that crossdressing (IMHO) is not something they chose to do on their own.
They were compelled to do it, need to do it as a form of self-expression. Love your man for all his sides as he does you. Then help him with his clothes and makeup. Try to get him to understand that black and brown should not be mixed in the same outfit!!! And....teach them to walk in heels and how to carry their arms.
DangerKitty622
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