Jumps to Each Story:

1. Feb 18 1997 --Barbara

2. Feb 23 1997 --Rita
UPDATE 7/10/99

3. June 2 1997 --Darci

4. June 4 1997 --Mary Ann

5. June 27 1997 --S

6. July 8 1997 --Raqual

7. July 15 1997 --Desiree
UPDATE 6/25/00

8. August 12, 1997 --Cathy

9. August 21, 1997 --Sue

10. October 2, 1997 --Wendy (UPDATES 3/98 & 12/98)

11. October 8, 1997 --Shalon

12. November 17, 1997 --Katie

13. December 3, 1997 --Jackie

14. December 4, 1997 --Star

15. December 8, 1997 --Twink
UPDATE 10/15/99

16. January 29, 1998 --Pam

17. February 6, 1998 --Paula

18. February 19, 1998 --R

19. March 13, 1998 --Cindy

20. April 15, 1998 --Robin

21. April 27, 1998 --Mickey

22. Deleted at sender's request

23. November 3, 1998--Arwyn
UPDATE 8/23/99

24. December 31, 1998 TygerMoon

25. May 4, 1999 --Doria

26. Deleted

27. June 21, 1999
--D.A.

UPDATE 6/7/2000
and 3/14/2001

28. July 28, 1999
--Peggy

29. Sept 20, 1999
--Gloria

30. Sept 21, 1999
--Kathy

31. Dec 18, 1999
--T.S.

32. Jan 9, 2000
--Jennifer

33. Jan 29, 2000
Kathy

34. March 18, 2000 --Ana Lisa

35. May 12, 2000 --Helen

36. September 8, 2000 --Susie
UPDATE 4/20/2002

37. March 27, 2001 -- Liz1Leg

38. April 3, 2001 -- L.M.

39. May 12, 2001 -- Betsy

40! June 1, 2001 -- Sarah

41 June 19, 2001 --Margot

42.  July 6, 2002
-- Jet

43. Oct 18, 2002
--Michee

44. Sep 22, 2003
--Moone

45. Nov 2, 2003
--Cathy

46. Nov 20, 2003
--DangerKitty

47. May 9, 2004
--Fiona

48. June 7, 2004
--Sara

49.  June 18, 2004
--Jaye

50.  Feb 25, 2005
--Sue

51. Feb 26, 2007
--Lillian

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CATHY
Received November 2, 2003

I have been married to a wonderful man for 3 years, and knew of his crossdressing prior to our marraige. I have always been very supportive, but lately wanting out of our relationship as Man and Wife.

This all really started about 17 months ago, he confessed to me that he wanted to live full time as a female and thus had made an appointment at a gender clinic. I joined him for the first few sessions and lent him my support. I always thought he needed to find himself but never thought he would go to the exteme as a full time female.

The first three months of therapy found him wanting to look more feminine, not that he did not look gorgeous dressed prior to his sessions. he has had laser treatments for his little hair growth and cosmetic surgery, nose and such. At seven months he had acquired very femine traits in action and looks. He rarely goes anywhere without make-up and had his hair cut in a very feminine style, along with his brows, arched and such. He and another TG friend opened a shop that caters to the crossdresser and has been very successful. I started to notice at about eight months that his skin was softer as his apperance in general, he could fill out a pair of tight cut jeans that would make any women jealous.

It was about a year and almost 7 months without any sex with him that I noticed my husband had devloped breasts, he had been on hormones for the last 10 months without me knowing. We had a falling out of sorts and I went up north to stay with my MOM for a while. It was 3 months before I returned home. He/she picked me up at the airport and was dressed in a tight pair of leather jeans and a very low cut revealing blouse, god his breasts were larger than mine and very full.

I was stunned fore before me was a very beutiful female. We talked for a very
long time at home, where I have found out that he has been dating a man and has had or is having an intimate relationship with him. His name has been changed to Jessica. We are trying to sort things out, but a divorce is inevitable. I now have a very good girl friend that was my husband. She is talking about SRS and I know it is only a matter of time. I need to get on with my life and only wonder if I made the right choices at the beginning by supporting her?

Cathy
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