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``R"
Received February 19, 1998
My husband and I have been married for 7 years and have 3 children. The way I found out D liked to cross dress was at the kitchen table.
He just came out and told me. The only problem was I was 4 months pregnant with our 3 child. (Not a good time, at all)
I still refuse to see him dressed in full "fashion".
The most I will allow is to see him in panties, but they are not mine. He actually goes out and buys his own. I find it pretty frustrating when I open my panty drawer and his only to find matching panties.
I think most of the time I can live with this, but then there are other times when we go to bed and I feel the silky panties. DRIVES ME CRAZY!
I went through the same feelings and questions that most of your other wives have gone through.
And like the other men he assures me he is not gay and does not want to have a sex change.
I sometimes wonder where it is that I have gone wrong when it comes to marriage. My first husband liked to hit and now my current husband likes to dress like a woman.
We have had a lot of open discussions and he always asks me if I have any questions for him.
And I never do. It is almost as if I feel like if I don't talk to him about this it will go away. Even though I know it won't.
Our oldest son is 13 and I always fear that he will some how find out. This would rip him apart.
He really looks up to his step-dad. They go on vacation together and play sports together. They are a great team, but there is always that "What if he finds out"...
Well, I guess I have went on enough for now. Please write back - I need someone to talk to about this.
Thanks
R
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