Jumps to Each Story:

1. Feb 18 1997 --Barbara

2. Feb 23 1997 --Rita
UPDATE 7/10/99

3. June 2 1997 --Darci

4. June 4 1997 --Mary Ann

5. June 27 1997 --S

6. July 8 1997 --Raqual

7. July 15 1997 --Desiree
UPDATE 6/25/00

8. August 12, 1997 --Cathy

9. August 21, 1997 --Sue

10. October 2, 1997 --Wendy (UPDATES 3/98 & 12/98)

11. October 8, 1997 --Shalon

12. November 17, 1997 --Katie

13. December 3, 1997 --Jackie

14. December 4, 1997 --Star

15. December 8, 1997 --Twink
UPDATE 10/15/99

16. January 29, 1998 --Pam

17. February 6, 1998 --Paula

18. February 19, 1998 --R

19. March 13, 1998 --Cindy

20. April 15, 1998 --Robin

21. April 27, 1998 --Mickey

22. Deleted at sender's request

23. November 3, 1998--Arwyn
UPDATE 8/23/99

24. December 31, 1998 TygerMoon

25. May 4, 1999 --Doria

26. Deleted

27. June 21, 1999
--D.A.

UPDATE 6/7/2000
and 3/14/2001

28. July 28, 1999
--Peggy

29. Sept 20, 1999
--Gloria

30. Sept 21, 1999
--Kathy

31. Dec 18, 1999
--T.S.

32. Jan 9, 2000
--Jennifer

33. Jan 29, 2000
Kathy

34. March 18, 2000 --Ana Lisa

35. May 12, 2000 --Helen

36. September 8, 2000 --Susie
UPDATE 4/20/2002

37. March 27, 2001 -- Liz1Leg

38. April 3, 2001 -- L.M.

39. May 12, 2001 -- Betsy

40! June 1, 2001 -- Sarah

41 June 19, 2001 --Margot

42.  July 6, 2002
-- Jet

43. Oct 18, 2002
--Michee

44. Sep 22, 2003
--Moone

45. Nov 2, 2003
--Cathy

46. Nov 20, 2003
--DangerKitty

47. May 9, 2004
--Fiona

48. June 7, 2004
--Sara

49.  June 18, 2004
--Jaye

50.  Feb 25, 2005
--Sue

51. Feb 26, 2007
--Lillian

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CATHY
Received August 12, 1997:

My name is Cathy. I have been in a relationship for over 2 years with a crossdresser. I learned about his cross dressing soon after we met. However, because of life's little potholes (a messy divorce on my part and raising a teenage daughter through it all and my boyfriends recent break up of an engagement...no the two happened before we met), we have only recently really openly discussed our feelings and questions.

 I guess I've had the same questions as most of the other ladies here. Is he gay? Does he want to become a woman? etc. etc. We've talked about those things and the answers are he just likes the feminine side of himself and likes to express it.

We've been out to clubs a couple times when he has been dressed and it was a fun time. This weekend we are planning to go to our first support group meeting. We are both looking forward to meeting the people we have up until now only chatted with on the computer or on the phone.

I guess I can deal with it all so well, once the initial questions were answered, because I am by nature a "Tom boy" and enjoy the freedom of "expressing" my "male" side. That is one way that women have far exceeded men in the opportunity factor for over 100 years. Just think, women have been "crossdressers" since the 1800's.

I would welcome any email or set up a time to chat.

Cathy  (Editor note: as of 12/97, this email address did not work. Cathy, if you read this, please forward a new Email address.)

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