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My name is Cathy. I have been in a relationship for over 2 years with a crossdresser. I learned about his cross dressing soon after we met. However, because of life's little potholes
(a messy divorce on my part and raising a teenage daughter through it all and my boyfriends recent break up of an engagement...no the two happened before we met), we have only recently really openly discussed our
feelings and questions.
I guess I've had the same questions as most of the other ladies here. Is he gay? Does he want to become a woman? etc. etc. We've talked about those things and the answers are
he just likes the feminine side of himself and likes to express it.
We've been out to clubs a couple times when he has been dressed and it was a fun time. This weekend we are planning to go to our first support group meeting. We are both looking
forward to meeting the people we have up until now only chatted with on the computer or on the phone.
I guess I can deal with it all so well, once the initial questions were answered, because I am by nature a "Tom boy" and enjoy the freedom of "expressing" my
"male" side. That is one way that women have far exceeded men in the opportunity factor for over 100 years. Just think, women have been "crossdressers" since the 1800's.
I would welcome any email or set up a time to chat.
Cathy (Editor note: as of 12/97, this email address did not work. Cathy, if you read this, please forward a new Email address.)
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